Remember a Loved One: Have you heard of Ashes Jewellery?

Memorial keepsakes can help individuals to process their grief. Finding a way to remember a loved one after they have passed on is always going to be a challenge. While you may want to avoid dwelling on the past so that you can move on, it’s also important to hold on to cherished memories so you can take the time to reflect when you need to.

Many people create a memory box that allows them to hold on to cherished memories and then remove other reminders from around their homes. Keeping everything in one place can help the grieving process, as it will reduce the risk of being distracted or upset by something while you are trying to move on.

Memorial jewellery is one of the best ways to maintain a strong connection with your loved one long after they have passed. It’s discreet, tactile and can be worn all day every day. If you aren't already familiar with memorial jewellery, these are some of the things you should know.

Remembering a loved one

From the funeral and the wake to scattering the ashes, these are all times when you are supposed to be able to think about your loved one and relish their memory. But these are short-lived events, and many people find that they need more support as they navigate the grieving process.

The grieving process is different for everyone, but there are similarities in the way it progresses. In the early stages, it can be scary to let things go. Getting rid of possessions or even scattering the ashes can feel overwhelming. Over time, as you grow around your grief, you might find that you feel more prepared to say goodbye to certain items.

This is why memorial jewellery is so helpful. It helps you to feel closer to your loved one in the early stages of grief. But as time passes, you might feel that you are less attached to the jewellery and don’t need to wear it all the time. But the jewellery will always be there to comfort you when you need it.

What is ashes jewellery?

There are many different types of memorial jewellery to hold ashes and many different ways to create these touching memorial keepsakes. The most expensive option would be to have the ashes turned into a diamond, but this often produces yellow diamonds with lots of inclusions, which are considered to be poor qualities in a diamond.

An alternative to this would be secret compartment jewellery. This is often made from precious metals such as silver and gold. A small compartment is made in the jewellery and the ashes are added before permanently sealing it. This can then be set with precious gems such as diamonds or rubies.

And finally, you could choose glass gemstone jewellery. With this type of jewellery, the ashes are rolled into a molten piece of glass which is then shaped, hardened and polished. These gems are then set into jewellery.

The only option to avoid would be resin jewellery, which is not a suitable material for memorial keepsakes. The plastic resin will break down over time, eventually releasing the ashes. You should always choose reliable and long-lasting materials for your jewellery to make sure you can wear it at all times and in all conditions.

The best ashes jewellery ideas

If you’re looking for the perfect piece of ashes jewellery, you first have to think about your lifestyle and what you hope to get out of the piece. Ask yourself the following questions:

• Will I wear this piece every day or just on special occasions?
• How much do I want to spend on the piece?
• Will I pass this jewellery on to my children?
• Can I wear this jewellery every day at work?
• Do I want diamonds, other precious gems, or glass gemstones?
• Do I prefer traditional or contemporary jewellery?

A solitaire diamond ring with the ashes housed in the shoulder of the ring is an ideal choice for an engagement ring or similar. This would also become a treasured family heirloom. 

Cufflinks would be an ideal choice to give a man on a special occasion. This would be a perfect way to memorialise a lost loved one on a special day such as a graduation or wedding. 

If you cannot wear rings at work, earrings or a pendant necklace might be more appropriate. Diamond earrings would be ideal for occasional wear, while glass gemstone studs would be more suited to everyday wear.

If you are looking for something tactile that will bring comfort and reassurance, then a pendant necklace would be ideal. This is something that you can clutch to when you need it the most.

And finally, you could also choose a bracelet that is either fixed or removable. A fixed bracelet is welded directly to your wrist, so there is little chance that you could lose it.