The questions people in the South West actually ask family lawyers in January

The first Monday of the new year is often referred to as ‘Divorce Day’, known for a surge in enquiries to family lawyers. But according to The Family Law Company, the majority of people getting in touch in January aren’t rushing into divorce.   

Divorce specialist Rachel Buckley says that often enquiries are from those looking for information, options and sometimes reassurance after the busy Christmas period. Not all of them will go ahead with the divorce process.

“Some people are worried that by contacting a family lawyer, they may have to make decisions straight away. This is a common question and why it is important to emphasise that simply seeking advice on divorce doesn’t mean a commitment to proceeding.”

Other questions that are asked include:

“What are my options if we’re unsure about separating?” There are a variety of routes that can be taken, including couples counselling and mediation. We are always happy to point people towards experiences professionals who can support them through their decision-making.

“How does separation affect finances and the family home?” Financial concerns can prevent someone from going ahead with a divorce, even when it’s clear that their marriage is over. By providing experienced advice on a particular situation, it’s often possible to allay fears of future financial vulnerability.

“Can we sort things out without going to court?” There’s a strong emphasis on finding solutions that don’t involve going to court. These are called non court divorce resolution options and include collaborative law and an approach called ‘one lawyer, two clients where a couple have the same lawyer to help them work through their situation. By not going to court the chances are that a couple can remain more amicable, which is especially important when there are children involved.

The Family Law Company offers a free half-hour initial appointment that will help clarify the situation for those contemplating divorce.

“While some will decide that their marriage has reached the end of the road and that they want to continue with the process, others find that discussing the realities of a divorce can help them to take an objective look at their situation and potentially find a way through.”